“He began by paying Sh3,000, at times Sh5,000 and went on until at some point he would pay tens of thousands,” she recalls. The white man was his father’s friend whom he knew after frequenting the hotel where he worked. Locals at the coast seem to be engaged in all kinds of financial survival acrobatics to cushion themselves against the harsh economic times.
Relationships
The court heard he went searching for single mothers on German online dating app ‘Knuddels’ to rape their children. The harsh economic times and desperation have pushed some men to levels that they not only pimp out their daughters but rent out their wives. She says the problem is complex, now that some older commercial sex workers introduce their teenage daughters into the business. The relationship went on for close to a year and ended after the girl finished school and secured a lowly job. The prosecution said the woman had been asleep before waking and realising the “enormity of the situation, that her son was in the process of having sex with her”.
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I found out last week that I am pregnant and there is no way it is my husband’s child as we have not been intimate for over six months. For sure, it is difficult having your mother doubling up as a co-wife. Having gone to the extent of getting intimate with your mother, what will he do to your sisters or cousins when they come visiting? Case in point is the story of Mary and Vertesha Carter, the mother and daughter engaged in a lesbian relationship. The problem with some women is that they are no longer even ashamed to be in a relationship with their own daughters. One of the happiest moments in a woman’s life should be the day she sees her daughter walking down the aisle with the man of her dreams.
Mum woke up screaming at night ‘to find 14-year-old aggressive son raping her’
- A mother woke up in the night to find her 14-year-old son raping her, a court heard.
- I comforted myself that getting solace from her own father was safe instead of getting it from outside.
- I blame myself so much for being a poor mother but now, as it were, it’s too late.
- It may be easier to consider leaving this man because he seems to have a problem keeping his act together and really, this is not the kind of person you want to have around you for the rest of your life.
Maybe they too blame me for their sister’s insanity though their distant relationship never changed. Only the previous night, he and I were very intimate on the same bed. “The only mistake we’ve made is using your bed,” my husband arrogantly said. I had never suspected my husband for cheating on me let alone bringing a woman to my house. My daughter, a university student, had mentioned she didn’t have didn’t have morning classes so she was probably studying in her bedroom. They went on holiday to Hungary and Romania where the child abuse reportedly continued in hotels.
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Like you put it, it is difficult because you see him every day of your life. Yes, it is about time you moved out and let them be as you try and find your way around this life. It is common for girls to be infatuated with their fathers but this only lasts a short while then they grow out of it. Indeed he can like you and even love you very much but not with the kind of love that would allow you to get intimate with him. Stop thinking like a girl who has never stepped inside a school, you are a Third Year student in the university. If you got a child with him, what would that child call your mother?
Have you thought about what could happen if you conceived a child with him? If anything, it is in order to say that he took advantage of his daughter. But of course there can be many other kinds of love, just not the kind you are implying. You are therefore not in love with him rather you are only infatuated. This is one of those things in life that are just unacceptable.
I must learn to accept my daughter as my co-wife. When she was in high school, I questioned who her girlfriends were but she was categorical that she enjoyed her own company. But every time I corrected her, the father would reprimand me in her presence. I recall a day when one of my friends called me to inform me that she had seen my daughter and her father kissing passionately.
I slept with my father-in-law
The man allegedly let his friends gang-rape his wife after he lost to them, the Daily Star reports. A man allegedly bet his wife in a poker game and let his friends rape her when he lost. Her teenage son, who is on medication for ADHD, had been having behavioural problems in recent weeks, Preston Crown Cour was told. A mother woke up in the night to find her 14-year-old son raping her, a court heard.
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I don’t care how much close a woman might be to her daughter or a guy to his son, the last thing that they should do is try to convert mother-daughter or father-son love into a romantic relationship. I often told-off the women justifying the closeness with the obvious fact that it is psychologically proven that daughters love their fathers more than their mothers. According to court documents, the mum even “prepared” her daughters and did not intervene when Daniel P had sex with them. A single mum let a convicted paedophile she met on a dating app rape her daughters, a court has heard. After a tourist asked him to hook him up with a local woman to spend some quality time, the tour guide offered his own wife, masquerading as his sister.
- This is indeed a difficult and embarrassing conversation to have but unfortunately, there is no other way around it.
- You are therefore not in love with him rather you are only infatuated.
- The man allegedly let his friends gang-rape his wife after he lost to them, the Daily Star reports.
- The alleged rapes are said to have taken place in Jaunpur, in Uttar Pradesh.
- Suppose it was you whose daughter was sleeping with your husband?
Mother: My daughter, my co- wife
The alleged rapes are said to have taken place in Jaunpur, in Uttar Pradesh. After she agreed to return home with him, he then is reported to have stopped the car on the way back and let the pair rape her again. She described her last 18 months with him as being an “absolute nightmare”.
Anyway, though an African man may be disappointed if his wife sires a baby girl, especially when it’s the first born child, he will not make a big deal out of it but appreciate it as God’s gift. One of the proudest moments in an African’s man’s life is when his wife gives birth to a child — a baby boy to be precise. I never withheld an iota of love from her yet she mercilessly took my husband and abused my matrimonial bed. I do all a wife is supposed to do apart from sharing my bed with my husband or choosing his wardrobe. The relationship between me and my daughter was average; we had good and bad times and I was firm but loving whenever she did a mistake.
She is a girl I nursed as a baby and nurtured into adulthood. I blame myself so much for being a poor mother but now, as it were, it’s too late. Our sons have gone their different ways to pursue their careers. I comforted myself that getting solace from her own father was safe instead of getting it from outside. I admit I may have given up on her too soon because I chose to ignore her and to continue bringing up my sons who had teachable spirits. She was very distant to her brothers and had no girlfriends.
Yes it is less weird than if it was your actual father but it is just inappropriate. Even if he is your step-dad, it is still weird and unimaginable. This is becoming difficult because I like him and the fact that we see each other daily worsens the situation. He roofied meaning also seems to have the same problem and I think he has fallen in love with me. Recently, we were watching a movie and ended up getting intimate and now I can’t get him off my mind.
Sometime last year, I asked my boyfriend to come home so I could introduce him to my mother. At this rate, eligible bachelors in the future will not have anyone to marry since they will face stiff competition from a woman who should otherwise be ready to settle down as a mother-in-law. These days more and more women have a very low opinion of men and would rather buy sex toys or be in a relationship with their own gender than a man. It would have been less painful, if my co-wife were not my very own daughter. Not anymore; today I am a bitter woman; full of regrets and nursing pangs of resentment against my daughter.
Count the game lost, wish both of them well in their new-found relationship. Do you have a father and if yes where is he? Try and forgive them both even if your heart will remain at pain because, after all, you love them both. He does not even want another child. You will find another man even if you decide to keep the child. This man will be a big burden to your life and will always be a source of pain and stress.
